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The Enneagram and Physical Health: How Personality Affects Your Well-Being

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I wrote an article recently for a journal about how our Enneagram type affects our relationship to food. As I researched that topic, I came across a surprising bit of information that reminded me of another important topic: how our…

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Christians, Please Stop Freaking Out About the Enneagram

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When I first started learning the Enneagram more than a decade ago, a pastor asked me not to talk about it in church or with people from church. Since then, I’ve watched a growing number of Enneagram books by Christian…

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Your Enneagram Type Constricts Your Ability to Love

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I had my first internet troll experience recently. It was bound to happen, but it still surprised me. The episode brought into stark relief just how much our personalities cost us. Here’s the backdrop. I’d posted a photo on Instagram…

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Fasting: An Invitation to Discomfort

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  I’m early days into a three-week Daniel fast. If you’re not familiar with this, it’s a fast that lets you eat (yay!) – but only fruits, veggies, grains and nuts. For a small percentage of health-conscious folks, this is…

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Pressing Through the Chaos into God’s Presence

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I did something recently that I’ve been putting off for more than a year: I switched this blog to self-hosted. Those of you who have blogs know what this means and probably shuddered in sympathy. For everyone else, I’ll just…

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We Are Desperately Afraid That We’re Unlovable

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I had a really painful relationship conflict earlier this year, and though I’m mostly over it, the sharp sting of it has been jabbing me at random in the last two weeks. The sadness comes screaming back in with startling…

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Please, Christians, Don’t Fear the Enneagram

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I was beyond pleased to see an article about the Enneagram appear in Christianity Today recently. It gives me hope that the Body of Christ is more fully embracing this excellent tool as an aid to self-knowing, God-knowing and transformation.…

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Putting It All Together for Type Seven

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This week, we end the “Putting It All Together” series on the Enneagram types with an exploration of Type Seven. Here are some of the various components that make up a Type Seven personality. Center: Head/Thinking (underlying emotion is fear)…

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Putting it All Together for Type Six

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This week, we remain in the Head Center to explore its anchor, Type Six. Let’s look at the various components that make up a Type Six personality. Center: Head/Thinking (underlying emotion is fear) Hornevian: Dutiful Harmonic: Emotional Realness Object Relation…

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Putting it All Together for Type Five

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We’re leaving the Heart Center and moving over to the Head with Type Five. Let’s look at the various components that make up a Type Five personality. Center: Head/Thinking (underlying emotion is fear) Hornevian: Withdrawn Harmonic: Competency Object Relation Group:…

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Quick Start Guide to Centering Prayer

This short guide gives you the essentials for learning to be still and quiet before God so you can hear his voice and feel his love in a deeper way.

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