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Fasting: An Invitation to Discomfort

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  I’m early days into a three-week Daniel fast. If you’re not familiar with this, it’s a fast that lets you eat (yay!) – but only fruits, veggies, grains and nuts. For a small percentage of health-conscious folks, this is…

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Loving People Who Devastate You

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Loving People Who Devastate You

On the morning of my grandmother’s funeral, I walked into a relative’s house and asked how she was doing. “Terrible,” she said. I assumed it was the grief of losing my grandmother, but it was much worse. Two other family…

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Surviving Relationship Devastation with the Enneagram

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I am going through an extremely difficult family relationship challenge. It feels like a piece of my heart just died. In periods of intense pain like this, I am profoundly grateful for two things: the presence of the Holy Spirit…

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Putting It All Together for Type Seven

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This week, we end the “Putting It All Together” series on the Enneagram types with an exploration of Type Seven. Here are some of the various components that make up a Type Seven personality. Center: Head/Thinking (underlying emotion is fear)…

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From the vault: The Genius of the Serenity Prayer

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(I’m still a bit behind from my 25th anniversary trip to Hawaii, so as I ramp back up, here’s a reprise of one of my most popular posts.) Most of us have probably heard the Serenity Prayer at some point…

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No Parking on the Life Floor – This Too Shall Pass

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[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gomCkCbKHA4&w=930&h=440] I’ve heard the phrase “This too shall pass” all my life in the context of unpleasant circumstances, as in “Things will get better soon.” I was very surprised to learn recently that this is not at all the…

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Let Difficulty Be Your Teacher

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Last week’s work duties were difficult for me. I needed to perform some atypical tasks that were time-sensitive and sometimes required hurry. (I shared my thoughts on hurry in this post.) By Friday, I observed emotions of anger and depression…

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The Genius of the Serenity Prayer

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Most of us have probably heard the Serenity Prayer at some point in our lives by now. If not, you’re in for a treat: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change…

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Life is Suffering…Well, Sort Of

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The first time I heard the phrase “Life is suffering,” I immediately balked. “Not my life!” I thought. “My life is awesome, full of joy and people I love.” It seemed a rather gloomy, even nihilistic, sentiment. Now that I…

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Quick Start Guide to Centering Prayer

This short guide gives you the essentials for learning to be still and quiet before God so you can hear his voice and feel his love in a deeper way.

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